
Codependent No More
by Melody Beattie
Mentioned once across 1 show ยท first heard Dec 2025 on Huberman Lab.
relationshipsmental healthself-help
The general take
Terry Real speaks positively about the book as part of the broader 12-step tradition, calling Pia Melody (the author) "a great light in 12-step" and mentioning it in the context of understanding addiction as rooted in disconnection. He positions it as aligned with his own approach and Huberman's interest in 12-step work, though the clip is brief and doesn't elaborate on specific insights from the book itself.
Who said what

Terry Real๐ Recommends
โฆreferencing seminal book on codependency and 12-step wisdom
โI have a one-sentence thing to say about addiction. What we self-medicate, when we self-medicate, is the pain of disconnection. I'm a big 12-step fan. I know you are too. One of my great mentors was Pia Melody. It was a great light in 12-step. Yeah, the book about codependency.โ
Huberman Lab โ Defining Healthy Masculinity & How to Build It | Terry Realat 59:39
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