Self-Driven Child
by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson
Mentioned once across 1 show · first heard May 2026 on My First Million.
The general take
Joe Liemandt recommends Self-Driven Child as a valuable read for parents of middle schoolers, valuing its focus on fostering independence at that stage of development. He deliberately keeps it away from kindergarten parents because their kids aren't ready for that level of autonomy yet. The book fits into his broader philosophy that independence becomes increasingly important as kids get older.
About
“ Instead of trusting kids with choices . . . many parents insist on micromanaging everything from homework to friendships. For these parents, Stixrud and Johnson have a simple message: Stop. ” — NPR “This humane, thoughtful book turns the latest brain science into valuable practical advice for parents.” —Paul Tough, New York Times bestselling author of How Children Succeed A few years ago, Bill Stixrud and Ned Johnson started noticing the same problem from different angles: Even high-performing kids were coming to them acutely stressed and lacking motivation. Many complained they had no control over their lives. Some stumbled in high school or hit college and unraveled. Bill is a clinical neuropsychologist who helps kids gripped by anxiety or struggling to learn. Ned is a motivational coach who runs an elite tutoring service.
Who said what
Joe Liemandt👍 Recommends
…describing books required for parents at different grade levels in the Alpha curriculum
“Once you get to middle school at Alpha, you have to read 10 to 25. There's another book, self-driven child that we do not allow kindergarten moms to read because it talks about your kid being independent and a kindergarten is the last thing you want to worry about. But once you get to middle school, right, that's where kids, you have to know, they're moving independence.”
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